Understand
Read the teaching and consider what it reveals about your own relationship.
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Biblical and practical workbook
12 lessons to invest time in what you love.
Código Matrimonio is a workbook for intentionally working together: understanding your experience, speaking honestly, and practicing new ways to care for each other.
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From teaching to practiceOne lesson. Time together.
One lesson. Time together.
A commitment to practice.
Talk
Share the questions and exercises. Listen to understand before responding.
Practice
Choose a specific action and review how it went together before moving forward.
The workbook journey
The 12 lessons
Four stages to understand each other, repair, build, and choose the legacy you wish to leave.
Part I · Understanding and communicating
01
Where are we as a couple?
Honestly recognize the current state of our relationship.
02
Communication that connects
Speak in ways that bring you closer, clarify, and strengthen.
03
Listen to understand
Listen to enter our partner's world, rather than only to respond.
04
Conflict without hurting each other
Face the problem without turning our partner into the enemy.
Part II · Repairing and deepening
05
Wounds, forgiveness, and repair
Healing means learning how to respond to a wound, rather than denying what happened.
06
Emotional needs
Recognize, express, and respond to our emotional needs.
07
Intimacy and marital connection
Build emotional, affectionate, spiritual, and physical closeness.
08
Trust, boundaries, and transparency
Protect the relationship through clear agreements, safety, and consistency.
Part III · Building and protecting
09
Money, decisions, and priorities
Make finances a place for cooperation, not division.
10
Family, children, and external pressures
Protect marital unity amid responsibilities and external relationships.
Part IV · Choosing each other and leaving a legacy
11
Choose each other again
Intentional love in everyday routines.
12
Our shared future and marital legacy
Build together the relationship, family, and legacy we want to leave.
At home and in community
For couples, small groups, and churches.
Go at your own pace. The workbook can support a weekly date at home, a couples' group, or a marriage discipleship program.
Pastors Rev. Dany and Ysmelia Sabino
Authors of Código Matrimonio. A resource combining pastoral experience with the conviction that biblical principles can shape everyday conversations and decisions.
Foreword by Rev. Manuel A. Álvarez.
Making time is also a way to love.
Growth requires commitment and shared practice. The workbook helps you organize that time.